Dear YOYOs,
As you may have known, this August, we are going to go through some topics related to the theme "beauty" for a whole month. The nature of beauty may be multidimensional; however, for the first meeting to discuss this topic, I would like to start from something visible to the naked eyes. Let's talk about some issues with regard to external forms of human beings.
We are always taught not to make comments on people’s appearance. There is a popular proverb that goes, "Beauty is only skin deep", which indicates that physical beauty is merely superficial. Also, a post on our forum has mentioned that "Real beauty lies not in the physical appearance, but in the heart." (The complete description is available here.) However, despite all these classic sayings, no one can ignore the fact that no matter you like it or not, our appearance does more or less play a role in all societies, regardless of gender, race, or social rank.
Studies have shown that beautiful people have advantages in all aspects. Researchers have discovered that good-looking students get more attention and higher grades from their teachers, that attractive patients gain more personal care from their doctors, and that handsome criminals receive lighter sentences than their mediocre counterparts. Moreover, a study has shown that on average, plain people earn less at work than ordinary-looking people do, while good-looking people get higher pay than people with average looks.
What makes the discrimination? "Good-looking men and women are generally judged to be more talented, kind, honest and intelligent than their less attractive counterparts," Dr. Gordon Patzer, who has spent more than three decades studying and writing about physical attractiveness, said in an interview with CNN. "Controlled studies have shown people go out of their way to help attractive people — of the same and opposite sex — because they want to be liked and accepted by good-looking people."
However, there stand some counterexamples that attractive people do not always get the benefit. Some people are prejudiced against good-lookers and assume that they are trivial or brainless, which sometimes cause them to lose out on jobs. Also, some of the world's most successful people have not met the standard of beauty, and business legends are often of average height (for example, Bill Gates stands at 5 feet 9 inches tall) or even shorter.
In any case, there have been loads of people willing to pursue outside beauty at any cost, and chances are that there will be endless successors. A radical way to chase after physical beauty is "cosmetic surgery" (or "plastic surgery"), which involves reshaping parts of the body for the purpose of enhancing a person's appearance.
Cosmetic surgery not only works for those who are not satisfied with their preordained looks, but provides significant outcome as anti-aging treatments. As aging is an unavoidable process that everyone would face, many people are trying many varied methods to slow it down. In addition to eating healthy, getting physical exercise and avoiding stress, many people also consider cosmetic surgery a quick and effortless way to maintain their looks.
According to statistics by the American Society for Aesthetic Plastic Surgery (Sorry I cannot find related statistics of Taiwan), there were nearly 11.7 million cosmetic surgical and non-surgical procedures performed in the United States in 2007. The most popular surgical procedures are liposuction, breast augmentation and eyelid surgery; while the most taken non-surgical procedures are Botox injection, hyaluronic acid and laser hair removal.
Is pursuing physical attractiveness a myth about beauty? As the classic line in the story of Snow White and the seven dwarfs goes, "Mirror, mirror on the wall, who's the fairest of them all?" This quote resonates with a world of young ladies, older women, and even men. However, when one is crazed about getting more beautiful, never forget that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. As Shakespeare wrote:
Good Lord Boyet, my beauty, though but mean,
Needs not the painted flourish of your praise:
Beauty is bought by judgment of the eye,
Not utter'd by base sale of chapmen's tongues
The question is, how would you cater to each eye?
Reference:
Beauty is in the eye of the culture
http://www.thecampusword.com/content/view/2756/593/
Do pretty people earn more?
http://edition.cnn.com/2005/US/Careers/07/08/looks/
Reconstructive Plastic / Cosmetic Surgical Procedures
http://www.the-cosmetic-surgery-directo ... dures.html
Cosmetic Plastic Surgery Research
http://www.cosmeticplasticsurgerystatis ... #2007-NEWS
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder
http://www.phrases.org.uk/meanings/59100.html
Further reading:
In the beholder's eye
http://www.kuwaittimes.net/read_news.ph ... Q5MTgzMjgx
Students on the street: How do you feel about plastic surgery?
http://media.www.dailyutahchronicle.com ... 0957.shtml
On TV: Botox. Face-lifts. Reconstructive surgery.
http://www.latimes.com/entertainment/ne ... 8945.story
Session I
1. Do you believe beautiful people have advantages in all aspects of life? Why or why not? Please provide examples to support your viewpoints.
2. Which gender do you think is more likely to judge other people by their appearance? Nowadays more and more men are willing to spend lots of money and effort on pursuing physical beauty as many women do. In your opinion, is it worthwhile for either to do so?
3. Do you know any people around you who have ever taken any cosmetic surgery? Which treatments did they have? Also, what is your position on cosmetic surgery?
Session II
Are you good at describing people's appearance? Let's play a game to practice your describing language!
The activity contains two parts - discussion and presentation:
Discussion time:
Each group shall choose 4-5 attendants (from any group) secretly and try to particularize their appearances. The features can be their physical appearance, clothing or any outside characteristics you observe (but without judgment, please).
Presentation time:
Each group takes turns to present the features of each target (one feature from each person) on the stage. The audience shall guess who the target is according to the description.
Note:
You can describe people's gender, length of their hair or color of their clothes which distinguish themselves from others; however, I would suggest that you start from something requiring careful observation, to make the game more interesting and challenging. Furthermore, if you guess it right, I will prepare little gifts for the winners as an encouragement! So don't miss the game!
Agenda
6:45 ~ 7:00pm Greetings and free talk among members and guests /taking individual orders/getting newcomers' information
7:00 ~ 7:10pm Opening remarks/ Brief self-introduction/ Grouping
(Session I)
7:10 ~ 7:40pm First discussion session (Question 1, 2 and 3)
7:40 ~ 7:50pm First summarization
7:50 ~ 8:00pm Regrouping & instruction giving
8:00 ~ 8:10pm Break time (Intermission)
(Session II)
8:10 ~ 8:30pm Second discussion session
8:30 ~ 8:50pm Presentation time
8:50 ~ 9:00pm Concluding remarks/feedback from newcomers/ announcements
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聚會時間:2008/8/6 (星期三) 請準時 6:45 pm 到 ~ 約 9:00 pm 左右結束
聚會地點:日安。KAFFA 北市南京東路三段303巷24號 (02)2719-7895
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